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By the Numbers: 28 September 2026
September 28, 2026
$119 billion
The "(t)otal annual cost of morbidity-related productivity losses attributable to" major depressive disorder among U.S. adults, according to an article in the American Journal of Preventive Medicine -- Morbidity-related productivity losses from major depressive disorder among U.S. adults. This equates to $5,824 "per affected adult in 2024."
Inability to work costs accounted for 44% of total productivity losses, followed by presenteeism (33%), absenteeism (18%), and household productivity loss (5%). Total productivity loss costs and per-person loss costs differed by sex.
Research Update: 24 September 2026
September 24, 2026
The weekly Research Update contains the latest news, journal articles, and useful links from around the web. Some of this week's topics include:
● Family Composition as a Moderator of PTSD and Suicidal Ideation-Related Risk for Non-Secure Firearm Storage Among U.S. Army Soldiers and Veterans.
● Prior Sexual Violence, PTSD Symptoms, and Recovery Trajectories After New Trauma.
● Mapping Clinical Diagnoses Associated With Neurodiversity and Neurodivergence in Mental Health Research: A Scoping Review.
● JAMA Insights: Psilocybin
CLICK HERE TO READ THE 24 SEPTEMBER 2026 RESEARCH UPDATE
Staff Perspective: The Power of Connection in Suicide Prevention
September 23, 2026
By David Obergfell, DSW, LCSW, BCD, DAAETS
I have sat across from people in the deepest reaches of their pain. I have lost colleagues, supervisees, and clients to suicide across a career that spans more than twenty-five years in mental and behavioral health. And I have experienced suicide loss personally, within my own family.
None of that makes me an expert on death. But it has given me a particular kind of education on what helps people stay alive, and what the research, increasingly, confirms: connection is not a complement to suicide prevention; it may be its most powerful upstream force.
What Suicide Is Really About
Researcher and clinical psychologist Dr. Thomas Joiner's interpersonal theory of suicide remains one of the most empirically supported frameworks we have. In short: people become most vulnerable to suicide when two painful beliefs converge. The perceived beliefs of “I am a burden to those around me” and “I do not belong anywhere.” Thwarted belonging and perceived burdensomeness. Disconnection from others and from one's sense of worth within a community.
These are not primarily psychiatric diagnoses. They are relational wounds.
Dr. Craig Bryan, whose work at The Ohio State University and across military and veteran populations spans more than 300 published studies and the influential book Rethinking Suicide, has further articulated how suicide risk is not a fixed trait but a dynamic state, shaped profoundly by the quality and felt safety of a person's social environment and real-time circumstances. Both frameworks suggest something most of us already know from lived experience: when a person feels genuinely seen, genuinely needed, and genuinely part of something, the calculus changes.
A Cultural Reflection for Consideration
Here I want to offer a thought, not a settled argument, but an invitation into reflection.
Anthropologist Edward Hall distinguished between high-context and low-context cultures. High-context cultures communicate meaning through relationships, shared history, and collective identity. What goes unsaid is understood because community provides the context. Low-context cultures rely more on explicit, individualized communication; meaning must be stated because shared context cannot be assumed.
Most Western industrialized societies, and the United States in particular, skew decidedly low context. We value independence, self-reliance, and individual achievement. These are genuine strengths. But, unrealized by an individual, they can carry a cost in the domain of mental health.
In a cultural context where self-sufficiency is the standard, struggle reads as failure. Needing others signals weakness. Asking for help means imposing a burden. The implicit message becomes, "You should be able to handle this yourself."
For someone already in the grip of perceived burdensomeness and thwarted belonging, whose internal experience is already whispering, “I am too much and not enough,” a culture that quietly confirms those messages is not a neutral backdrop but can be an accelerant.
The protective factors that appear most consistently in the research are belonging, shared meaning, community accountability, and knowing others would notice your absence. They exist, or fail to exist, in how we organize our relationships, our neighborhoods, and our institutions. This seems worth sitting with, especially for looking at human-centered design in prevention.
What Connection?
When I say connection is an antidote to suicide, I mean something layered.
Connection to self, the capacity to turn toward one's own emotional experience rather than away from it. Healing often shows up here first: someone notices joy again, or grief, or even simple physical hunger. Any signal from the body that says I am still here and something matters.
Connection to others, the experience of being known, imperfect and still chosen. Of having someone who notices when you go quiet and says something. Of mutual accountability that carries a person when they cannot carry themselves.
Connection to meaning, a sense that one's presence has consequences. That something, or someone, is worth staying for. Connection to possibility, the ability to imagine a future self, to believe that current pain is not the permanent shape of things. Hope, in its most honest form, is a connective tissue.
What Evidence Tells Us
One of the more compelling examples in recent prevention science is the Wingman-Connect program, developed for U.S. Air Force personnel and now expanded as Core Connections for law enforcement, healthcare, and community organizations. Rather than focusing on identifying and treating at-risk individuals, the program trains small units to strengthen cohesion, shared purpose, and collective skills to navigate challenges together.
Published in JAMA Network Open, the results showed significant reductions in suicidal ideation, depression, and occupational problems. A follow-up network analysis found that at-risk Airmen in trained units were far less likely to become isolated and saw an average 53% gain in valued peer connections, even though the program never explicitly targeted at-risk individuals. Protection emerged from the community itself.
Dr. Peter Wyman, the program's lead researcher, noted that suicide-preventive coping skills are most often learned from close-knit peers. The implication is quietly radical: build the community first, and the protection follows. This is upstream prevention, not the absence of treatment, but the presence of conditions that make crisis less likely in the first place.
What We Can Do Together
Prevention begins before crisis. It begins with the daily habits of how we show up for each other.
Notice and name. The most protective thing a person can offer someone they care about is to acknowledge their presence and ask, genuinely, with time to wait for the answer.
Reduce the cost of struggling. In communities where failure is treated as information rather than character, people stay visible longer. They don't have to disappear to be safe.
Build accountable relationships, not just supportive ones. Support implies direction. Accountability is mutual. Someone who knows you will notice your absence is different from someone available if you reach out.
Examine your community's norms. What does it mean, in your workplace, your unit, your family, to need help? What happens to people who say so? The answers tell you a great deal about the upstream conditions you are living in.
Human beings change throughout life. We are not fixed. The circumstances that generate despair are not permanent, even when they feel that way. And the research is consistent: that connection to self, to others, to meaning, to possibility is among the most powerful forces we have for keeping each other here.
If you are reading this and it feels personal, know you are not a burden. The people around you would feel your absence. If you are struggling right now, please reach out to someone you trust or one of the resources below. We do this better together.
The opinions in CDP Staff Perspective blogs are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the opinion of the Uniformed Services University of the Health Science or the Department of War.
David Obergfell, DSW, LCSW, BCD, DAAETS, is a Military Mental Health Social Worker and Subject Matter Expert with the Consortium for Defense Psychology (CDP) at the Uniformed Services University of the Health Sciences in Bethesda, Maryland. In this capacity, he supports military behavioral health faculty on assignments and bandwidth across the center, providing professional development and performance management
Resources
Crisis Support
- 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988, 24/7; chat available online
- Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
- Veterans Crisis Line: Call 988, press 1; text 838255
Research & Frameworks
- Joiner's Interpersonal Theory of Suicide, Overview
- Craig Bryan, Psy.D., Rivet Lab, Ohio State University, research on suicide prevention, crisis response, and military populations
- Rethinking Suicide by Craig J. Bryan
Upstream & Community Prevention
- Core Connections / Wingman Connect, SafeSide Prevention, evidence-based peer cohesion model
- Effect of the Wingman-Connect Upstream Suicide Prevention Program for Air Force Personnel in Training: A Cluster Randomized Clinical Trial
- Zero Suicide Institute, system-level framework for healthcare and organizational settings
- American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, education, advocacy, and survivor resource
By the Numbers: 21 September 2026
September 21, 2026
64%
The percentage of construction workers who "reported experiencing anxiety or depression in the previous 12 months, substantially higher than the 30% rate reported among US adults in general," according to an article in JAMA Health Forum -- Mental Health and Construction—Intervening to Prevent Collapse.
According to a 2023 National Vital Statistics Report, the construction and extraction industry experienced the highest drug overdose death rates (162.6 deaths per 100 000 workers) in the US, approximately 7 times higher than the general population (23.1 deaths per 100 000 standard population), and significantly higher than other industries involving manual labor, such as grounds cleaning and maintenance (70.0 deaths per 100 000 workers); farming, fishing, and forestry (51.3 deaths per 100 000 workers); food preparation and service (117.9 deaths per 100 000 workers); installation, maintenance, and repair (69.9 deaths per 100 000 workers); and transportation and material moving (70.7 deaths per 100 000 workers).
Research Update: 17 September 2026
September 17, 2026
The weekly Research Update contains the latest news, journal articles, and useful links from around the web. Some of this week's topics include:
● Sleep Health Is Not Optional, It's Operational: Introducing the Biopsychosocial Model of Sleep Deprivation on Warfighter Readiness.
● National trends in mental health outcomes among U.S. combat veterans by war era.
● Extreme Risk Protection Orders Among Military Service Members and Veterans.
● The prevalence and incidence of sleep disorder symptoms, correlates, and sex- stratified longitudinal associations with mental and menstrual health outcomes in UK Service Personnel: a prospective survey-based cohort study protocol.
CLICK HERE TO READ THE 17 SEPTEMBER 2026 RESEARCH UPDATE
Staff Perspective: Losing a Patient to Suicide Part I - The Scope and Impact
September 16, 2026
By Andrew Devendorf, Ph.D.
Losing a patient to suicide is among healthcare providers’ greatest fears. But most providers are not prepared for navigating this nightmare. This can worsen the aftermath of a suicide—making it more confusing, more chaotic, and more painful. Everyone loses in this situation: providers, their colleagues, their organization, and, of course, the surviving loved ones.
Over a series of posts, I aim to demystify this important yet underdiscussed area. My hope is to alleviate some anxieties by answering some basic questions.
These include:
- How common is it for a provider to lose a patient to suicide?
- What is it like to endure this nightmare?
- What are some effective ways to cope with it?
- How can organizations provide postvention support?
- What are the potential legal concerns of losing a client to suicide (e.g., malpractice)?
This post will address the first 2 questions.
Statistics of Suicide Loss Among Providers
Suicide is a leading cause of death in the United States. It is the 2nd leading cause of death for people ages 10-44, and the 8th leading cause of death for people ages 45-64. Many providers know these statistics, and they recite them for public health awareness. But most do so without knowing that, they too, may be affected by these tragedies.
Unfortunately, losing a patient to suicide is not an uncommon experience. A systematic review of 41 studies, across 15 countries, found that 1 in 2 healthcare professionals experienced a patient suicide across their career. When broken down by specialty, 37% of psychologists, 73% of psychiatrists, and 87% of general practitioners lost a client to suicide over their career. Among trainees, about 1 in 6 psychologists reported losing a client to suicide during their one-year clinical internship, and about 1 in 2 psychiatrists reported losing a client to suicide during their residency.
I think it’s importance to contextualize these rates and their interpretation, as they can be scary. First, these rates represent suicide loss across a provider’s career—and providers may see hundreds or thousands of patients across their lifetime. The fact remains that the likelihood of losing a given patient is still very low, so providers need not be concerned when working with a patient with suicidal thoughts. Second, these rates do not capture the level of closeness or proximity of the patient-provider relationship. For instance, the high rate of patient suicides among general practitioners is likely related to their high case load. They are more likely to see patients in brief primary care appointments rather than a long-term psychotherapy context.
A Nightmare for Providers
A patient suicide can be a tremendous loss for a provider. Like any loss, there’s no right or wrong way to grieve a patient suicide, as each one is different. On a personal level, experiencing a patient suicide simply hurts because our patients matter to us. Particularly when we develop longstanding relationships with them, such as in psychotherapy, we get to know intimate aspects of their lives.
On a professional level, we strive to provide the best care. We see people when they are struggling, when they need our help. And, if a patient dies by suicide, we might perceive it as a personal failure. In fact, even among providers who are trained in suicide prevention, research shows that they may feel a sense of responsibility, or a lack of competency, after a patient suicide. Furthermore, providers may experience a storm of thoughts and feelings related to the tragedy. I outline some common reactions below.
Thoughts, Images, and Concerns:
“I must have done something wrong.”
“I should have seen the signs.”
“Could I have prevented this?”
“Did I miss something?”
Replaying sessions in one’s head
Doubting one’s competence
Concerns about not knowing what to do next
Feelings:
Guilt, self-blame
Shame, embarrassment
Grief, profound sadness
Confusion, shock, disbelief
Anger (at self, client, or system)
Fear of judgment, litigation, and working with future suicidal clients
Behaviors:
Withdrawing from colleagues
Second-guessing oneself
Avoiding suicide-related topics
Over-documenting future cases
Difficulty returning to work
Hypervigilance with other clients
Changes in sleep or appetite
While I have not experienced a patient suicide, I can identify somewhat with the nightmare. I lost my brother to suicide in 2017. This loss hit me with unrivaled pain, confusion, and self-doubt. I replayed every scene with him, especially the times that he confided in me about his chronic depression. I interrogated myself, asking, "Did I do enough?" “Did I say the right things?” and "Why didn’t he feel comfortable reaching out to me?” I was not his therapist, but I was about to embark on my training as a psychologist, and my mission was to specialize in suicide prevention. Losing him made me question my ability, “Would I be capable of treating suicidal ideation?” “Would I be able to handle it?” and “Would I be able to make a difference, or would I fail my patients?”
The Need for Proactive Postvention Support
Postvention is a coordinated approach to providing support for people impacted by a suicide loss. The core components include psychoeducation, social support, and structural support (e.g., at the workplace). Postvention efforts (ideally) give a roadmap for navigating the personal (e.g., emotional), professional, legal, and administrative complications after a suicide. There should be risk management and communication protocols across all parties involved; this includes the provider, their supervisor, their team, their organization, and the patient’s loved ones.
Postvention should be proactive—not reactive. The immediate aftermath of a suicide loss can be an emotionally charged time. Preparing a plan prior to a loss can help decrease the anxiety associated with having to quickly determine necessary action steps following a suicide. It can also reduce administrative confusion and thus allow attention to be placed on the human impact.
It can be useful for providers to treat suicide postvention like fire preparation: fires are unlikely to happen, and yet, everyone should always be prepared for one. Like fire preparation, providers and their organizations should develop a proactive plan for a patient suicide. This can be a usable electronic document that is accessible to everyone in the organization. Plans could be organized into sections for the relevant audience (e.g., staff, trainees, leadership, family members) and by action items for the pertinent topics (e.g., “Communicating with Family,” “Supporting Oneself,” “Liability and Malpractice Information”). Of course, making a plan is just the first step. No different than a firedrill, organizations should hold re-occurring trainings and reminders about postvention protocols. Put simply, suicide postvention is an ongoing discussion.
Stay Tuned…
Suicide postvention deserves more attention. And so, in later posts, I will get deeper on suicide postvention for providers.
The opinions in CDP Staff Perspective blogs are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the opinion of the Uniformed Services University of the Health Science or the Department of War.
Andrew Devendorf, Ph.D., is a Military Mental Health Psychologist with the Henry M. Jackson Foundation for the Advancement of Military Medicine. He serves as a subject matter expert in suicide prevention for the VA SAFEGUARD project.
References
Jupina, M., Mercer, M., Weleff, J., Hackett, L., Nunes, J. C., Sebastian, D., & Anand, A.
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By the Numbers: 14 September 2026
September 14, 2026
56.0% vs. 47.3%
The percentage of veterans who report using mental health care versus non-veteran use, according to a study published in the journal Psychiatric Services -- Mental Health Care Use and Barriers Among Veterans and Nonveterans With Suicidal Ideation: Findings From a National Survey.
However, nearly one-third of both veterans and nonveterans reported unmet mental health needs. Veterans were less likely than nonveterans to endorse cost as a barrier to care (APR=0.65) but were more likely to endorse confidentiality concerns (APR=1.65). Fear of involuntary hospitalization and stigma were common in both groups.
Staff Perspective: SPRIRC Year One Update
September 2, 2026
By Kristyn Heins, Ph.D.
The Suicide Prevention and Response Independent Review Committee (SPRIRC) identified a number of recommendations for improving suicide prevention efforts. Some of these included increasing suicide prevention training, improving access to resources, and promoting lethal means safety. The Consortium for Defense Psychology (CDP) has spent the past year targeting a few of these recommendations and increasing the effort to improve suicide prevention services.
One of the most notable efforts was the increase in offered trainings of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-Suicide Prevention (CBT-SP). The CDP offered 69 CBT-SP trainings over the last 12 months. The two-day immersive training includes education on terms and theory, a specific focus on lethal means safety, and detailed review of the evidence based therapy. Participants engage in polls, small group discussions, and have opportunities to role play these new skills. Once someone has finished the two-day training, they are encouraged to engage in free CBT-SP consultation which is offered twice a week by CDP subject matter experts.
The CDP has also worked to engage adjacent providers, not just training therapists. The suicide prevention training for mental health technicians (MHTs), which is an interactive, instructor-led course, includes role play activities to reinforce learning in each of the key skills. The course provides an overview of the basic components of CBT-SP and how a MHT can support a patient engaged in CBT-SP. Additionally, a separate training tailored to prescribers provides education on the essential skills associated with suicide prevention. This includes safety planning and LMSC, while also providing modules on DOW recommendations and best practices for prescribing medication to patients experiencing increased suicide risk.
The CDP continues to evolve in how we are reaching providers. Over the past year a number of CDP Presents, our monthly webinar series, focused on suicide prevention. Inspiring presentations included navigating suicide in context of romantic relationships, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy for suicide prevention, and prevention of harmful behaviors. One of the most engaging methods of reaching providers is through the Practical for Your Practice podcast. Episodes included topics like navigating multiple presenting problems that contribute to suicide risk, personal experience of suicide loss, and firearm safety.
The CDP considered how various presenting concerns can contribute to suicide risk. Knowing that suicidal thoughts do not develop in a vacuum, we considered what other diagnoses we should be addressing. This year marked the re-launch of CBT for Chronic Pain. There were nine Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-Chronic Pain offerings this past year, each with a substantial number of actively engaged participants. The CDP has also incorporated training on Posttraumatic Stress Disorder evidence based therapies, understanding that traumatic experiences can contribute to the development and maintenance of suicidal thoughts.
We are excited for the next year and our continued push to train providers in evidence based therapies. In addition to our current efforts, we are incorporating a number of alternative learning opportunities including asynchronous training and microlearnings. We look forward to working towards the goal of expanding suicide prevention efforts and supporting our service members and veterans.
Interested in our work? Ready to join the effort? See our training calendar for a complete list of course offerings at https://cdp.usuhs.edu/training-schedule
The opinions in CDP Staff Perspective blogs are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the opinion of the Uniformed Services University of the Health Science or the Department of War.
Kristyn Heins, Ph.D., is a Licensed Professional Counselor serving as a Military Mental Health Counselor for the Consortium for Defense Psychology (CDP) at the Uniformed Services University of the Health Sciences in Bethesda, Maryland. In this role, she supports the CDP’s efforts of training clinicians in evidenced-based practice focused on suicide prevention.
By the Numbers: 31 August 2026
August 31, 2026
19,000
The approximate number of child care workers employed by he Department of Defense (DOD), according to a report from the Government Accountability Office (GAO) -- Military Child Care: Services’ Use of Worker Recruitment and Retention Incentives.
These workers care for nearly 172,000 children of service members and DOD civilian employees (as of fiscal year 2024). The military services face challenges recruiting and retaining child care workers, contributing to lengthy waitlists and wait times for child care.
Staff Perspective: The Art of Treading Water - A Military Spouse’s Reflection on PCS
August 26, 2026
By: Heather Tompkins, Ph.D., MS-ATR, MA, LCMHC
Military life is synonymous with change. While change can be positive, it also can bring stress. The concept of normative military stressors- unique stressors that are an inherent part of military life- is central to military life. A primary example of a normative military stressor are Permanent Change of Station (PCS) moves. Relocation is an anticipated part of military life, with service members and their families moving on average every 2-4 years. Military families move more often and longer distances than civilians. On average, a military family will move 6-9 times between when a child starts kindergarten and graduates from high school. Currently, PCS season is in full swing for many military families (including my own), with peak volume occurring during the summer months from mid-May to mid-September.
A PCS move brings a unique blend of personal, family, and logistical challenges. “Life as usual” consists of managing house packouts, finding childcare/changing schools, career/employment transitions, and adjusting to a new duty station/environment, among other things. As a military spouse who has experienced numerous PCS moves (not counting temporary housing or moves between), I feel fairly versed in the process, the challenges, and the relief the end of each move brings. While moving to a new duty station brings the potential for new personal and professional opportunities, a prolonged or complicated PCS can tax or overwhelm the most adaptable military families. The relocation process presents a dual burden:
- Logistical Challenges: Managing packing/HHG delivery, travel coordination, housing transitions, expenses, and physical establishment in a new location.
- Psychological Strain: Exerting cognitive and emotional energy to adapt to new environments, settle into new workplaces or school systems, navigating medical/healthcare, managing loss of local support networks.
Re-establishing and managing a household, career, and family life, while simultaneously absorbing these emotional demands can require substantial physical and mental bandwidth. From my own PCS experiences, I’ve learned a few strategies to help manage the stress and help my family adjust to whatever each new duty station brings.
Three Practical Ways to Manage Stress During Transitions
1. Practice Self-Awareness and Reflection
Self-awareness is the ability to see and understand your own thoughts, feelings, actions, and how you fit into the world. It can be internal (feelings, triggers, core values, and habits) and/or external (how other people see you and how you affect them). Practicing self-awareness allows us to be aware of and manage strong feelings, guides our choices, and helps us to keep how we live in-line with our values. One tool that I frequently use when engaging in self-awareness is metaphor. The water depth metaphor (swimming, treading or sinking) has become my go to when assessing where I am at and how I’m coping amidst military life’s normative stressors.
Normally, I’m swimming along, think Dory (just keep swimming, swimming, swimming), fulfilling my day-to-day personal and professional activities. However, during periods of stress or transition, such as our current PCS, my “normal swimming along” shifts and oscillates between swimming steadily and treading water.
- Swimming: Feeling grounded, moving forward with purpose and on solid footing, comfortably managing and adapting to current demands and challenges.
- Treading Water: Exerting continuous effort to stay in place and keep your head above water to keep up with day-to-day tasks, working hard but not moving (forward or back), “surviving” a busy period, stress, challenges without making progress.
- Sinking: Experiencing acute overwhelm where overlapping stressors feel unmanageable, loss of energy to stay afloat, failing or dropping below the surface.
No matter how prepared, organized, or experienced we are, it is normal for our stress levels to rise as we manage the logistics and psychological strain that come with the transitions of a military move. Engaging in a self-awareness check is a healthy way to gauge where your mental and emotional well-being are during both normal and heightened periods of stress. Likewise, during a prolonged or complicated transition, a simple pause and asking yourself: Am I swimming, treading, or sinking in water? Can provide the opportunity to evaluate whether we are coping and managing these stressors or do we need additional support and resources.
2. Utilize Resources and Supports
I have found over the 15 years of military life, navigating military stressors and transitions does not have to be done in isolation. We each have our supports, whether it is family, friends, neighbors or a combination of that we can turn to during life’s stressors. Likewise, turning to military-informed professionals ensures that the support received is anchored in an understanding of the nuances and realities of military life. Specialized support and resources help bridge gaps in care during times of change, transition, and geographic relocation. As a military family, we are fortunate to have numerous resources both on and off installation that exist to support well-being through every stage of relocation and service. A few examples include (not exhaustive list):
- Star Behavioral Health Providers (SBHP): SBHP helps bridge the gap in specialized behavioral health care by connecting military-connected clients with civilian providers specifically trained in military culture and evidence-based treatments. starproviders.org
https://starproviders.org/find-support/ - Military OneSource: A comprehensive 24/7 service offering confidential non-medical counseling, relocation tools, and practical support for every aspect of military life. https://www.militaryonesource.mil/
- inTransition Program: For service members currently receiving mental health care, inTransition provides coaching and support to ensure continuity of care during transitions, PCS moves, or separation from service. https://veteran.com/intransition-program/
- Military Family Life Counselors (MFLC): Provides free and confidential counseling to service members, their families (including children), and survivors on or near installations. In addition, military leaders can request briefings and grief counseling for their units. https://www.militaryonesource.mil/resources/tools/mflc-locator/
These are just a few of the many resources available to military service members and their families that are easily accessible and can provide a variety of support services across the various stressors and stages of transition in military life.
3. Prioritize Re-adjustment, Stability, and Self-Care
PCS impacts the entire family unit. Relocation leads to disruption to routine, stability, and support networks, requiring constant adaptation and flex. Thus, regaining stability after a PCS requires deliberate, structured effort. Military families can foster adjustment and stability by actively prioritizing the following:
- Restoring Routines: Re-establishing predictable household rhythms, daily schedules, and family activities to rebuild a sense of safety and normalcy.
- Connecting with Resources: Securing medical/behavioral healthcare providers, establishing childcare/ school enrollment, identifying both on/off installation supportive resources.
- Building Community: Proactively seeking out local support networks, school/childcare contacts, and peer connections both on and off installation to build your “village”.
Whether you are swimming steadily or working hard to stay afloat, remember that self-awareness is one of the first steps toward well-being. You do not have to endure change, transition, and stress in isolation. There are resources and supports available. As my family’s current PCS comes to an end, my oscillation between swimming steadily and treading water is beginning to move to calmer water. What about you? Take a moment and notice where you are today (swimming, treading, or sinking) and what supports can help bring you back to swimming.
The opinions in CDP Staff Perspective blogs are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the opinion of the Uniformed Services University of the Health Science or the Department of War.
Heather Tompkins, Ph.D., MS-ATR, MA, LCMHC, is a Military Behavioral Health Psychologist with the Consortium for Defense Psychology (CDP) at the Uniformed Services University of the Health Sciences in Bethesda, Maryland. In this role, she provides oversight and fosters collaboration for creative arts related research projects in partnership with the Defense Intrepid Network.